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My boyfriend is on his way to becoming a trucker and I am along for the ride! Hoping to connect with others who have a spouse/loved one currently (or formerly!) out on the open road or more locally, and don't mind assuaging the fears of someone totally new to this life!
Posted: 9 years, 5 months ago
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Advice for being a trucker girlfriend??
My boyfriend started his journey in trucking back at the start of October, and he's currently with his "mentor" right now. It's been rough not seeing him, but being supportive is definitely the number 1 thing I am doing for him right now. I think it's definitely the most important thing, just being there as a listening ear when things get rough, or when things are great and he's just bursting at the seams with stories he wants to tell me.
I also agree with Sue D., that being independent and able to take care of business without my bf is really important. It's nice to have a good support group of friends and loved ones who can listen to ME when I need to vent about not being able to help him out with something he's struggling with, or see him at that moment, etc.
We have the added benefit of having started our relationship out when we first met long distance, him in Florida and me in KY, so that bit of experience has helped us both cope with the idea of him not being home with me all the time. It's still rough, but talking on the phone when he can, or even just messaging me online, keeps us in touch and in the know of what's going on with each other.
I'm also blessed with having a job that understands that when he's home, I can switch things around in my schedule to also be home with him. He hasn't been home since earlier this month due to his training with his company, but I at least can rest assured in the knowledge I will get to see him when he is, and not miss out on any of that. I know that isn't always possible, I'm just extremely fortunate in that respect.
I cannot wait to eventually be able to ride with him and have tons of adventures on the open road.
Hang in there! If you ever need an ear, I'd definitely be more than happy to listen!
Best wishes and happy Thanksgiving!