One Thing Just Doesn't Ever Get Easy

Saying goodbye to family & the wife just doesn't ever get easy. I'm sitting at the airport just thinking how many times I've got through this and its still extremely difficult for everyone involved. By far the worst feeling there is in this industry.

It's a lot harder for my wife. Any advice to give her to make it easier on her?

Honestly if you are going to stay driving a truck then there are only two options...either go local so you can be home every night or she will just have to get use to it. Not really a middle ground as far as saying goodbye each time.

Daniel, one thought that comes to mind, is that there are many single mothers who have to support their children all alone. Without an advanced degree, the job market is very limited for these women. Most either work 3 jobs, or work one job that makes them feel really bad about themselves.

I know being apart is tough on everyone, but at least your wife and children have a father who is willing to make a sacrifice that some men would never consider making. Like all rough spots, it will be temporary. Once you make it far enough along in your career, you will be able to drive closer to home, and be home every night, or at the very least on the weekends.

Like the old saying goes, "Anyone can be a father, but it takes a special man to be a Dad."

Make a tape or cd for her. That way she can hear your voice when you're not home. Make her laugh and it will be easier for her.

Yeah, that's really tough. We have the Ladies of Trucking Forum where she could hang out and talk. It's not just for lady truck drivers, it's for any women involved in trucking in any way, including the wives of truckers. It would give her someone to talk to that can relate to her for sure.

Daniel I definitely understand this. Not in a relationship but being away from my children for long periods is extremely hard but the things I can afford them with the money I make and keeping my eye on the future goals keeps me going. I had dated a trucker before this and its not easy. Just need alot of fait, understanding, love and Tango;) (like skype;)

Wow, my wife kicks me out the door Monday mornings LOL, says, have a good week, see ya Friday LMAO.

It helps that she knows I will be back every weekend, but after almost 20 years of marriage and the first 10 being deployed in the military all the time, one week is nothing to her.

Not much you can do about it, it is what it is, just look forward to the next time you come home.

 Just need alot of fait, understanding, love and Tango;) (like skype;)

There is also oovoo and some other apps that can be used by smart phones, pc, and tablets. At least one of those should help. Best of luck.

I would have been into trucking many, many years ago if it were not for marriage. I just thought it best for me to stay away from trucking under those circumstances, but I understand not everyone has all the options I had. My being single with no family is a huge advantage, but like the others have said, just stick it out until you can land a local gig. Good luck.