I hijacked my husbands account to add my 2 cents..... I am a truckers wife.... I'll admit him being otr was difficult at first.... Then I went to Las Vegas for our daughters 21st birthday...
Was sitting by the pool talking to 3 sisters from Ireland... Told them my truth....
He's gone for 6 weeks...
He comes home we **** like monkeys.......
We're in the phone constantly....
When we see each other its soooo damn good. Like being young and newly in love again...
One of the sister's sat up pulled off her sunglasses and stated
"You lucky b***h"
I realized right then.... Yeah I was lucky... I had a wonderful husband that is away from home because he loves his family.
It's what you make of it....
If wives think they have it hard...
Sit back and think of hubby alone, tired, eating crap food, using public showers, and being away from home....
Thank your man...
Thank you Mrs. Jim A.! None of us could’ve brought this point home better than you. I’m divorced so I struggled with how to frame my response. Only thing that I can add is this. As a rookie driver, as I understand it, we will using our first 1-2 years entirely as a training period. An intense one to boot. After that period, we can have our pick of where we want to go to make decent money & maybe get home every night, every other night, the sky’s the limit. We can do dedicated accounts, regional accounts, on & on. So the family sacrifices 1-2 years but the reward for that is a secure job that can get you home nightly.
God bless you & your family. May Jim A. return home safely as often as possible. A strong bond as you two share will stand the test of time.
Regional:
Regional Route
Usually refers to a driver hauling freight within one particular region of the country. You might be in the "Southeast Regional Division" or "Midwest Regional". Regional route drivers often get home on the weekends which is one of the main appeals for this type of route.
OTR:
Over The Road
OTR driving normally means you'll be hauling freight to various customers throughout your company's hauling region. It often entails being gone from home for two to three weeks at a time.
Dm:
Dispatcher, Fleet Manager, Driver Manager
The primary person a driver communicates with at his/her company. A dispatcher can play many roles, depending on the company's structure. Dispatchers may assign freight, file requests for home time, relay messages between the driver and management, inform customer service of any delays, change appointment times, and report information to the load planners.
Thank you Mrs. Jim A.! None of us could’ve brought this point home better than you. I’m divorced so I struggled with how to frame my response. Only thing that I can add is this. As a rookie driver, as I understand it, we will using our first 1-2 years entirely as a training period. An intense one to boot. After that period, we can have our pick of where we want to go to make decent money & maybe get home every night, every other night, the sky’s the limit. We can do dedicated accounts, regional accounts, on & on. So the family sacrifices 1-2 years but the reward for that is a secure job that can get you home nightly.
God bless you & your family. May Jim A. return home safely as often as possible. A strong bond as you two share will stand the test of time.
Regional:
Regional Route
Usually refers to a driver hauling freight within one particular region of the country. You might be in the "Southeast Regional Division" or "Midwest Regional". Regional route drivers often get home on the weekends which is one of the main appeals for this type of route.
OTR:
Over The Road
OTR driving normally means you'll be hauling freight to various customers throughout your company's hauling region. It often entails being gone from home for two to three weeks at a time.
Dm:
Dispatcher, Fleet Manager, Driver Manager
The primary person a driver communicates with at his/her company. A dispatcher can play many roles, depending on the company's structure. Dispatchers may assign freight, file requests for home time, relay messages between the driver and management, inform customer service of any delays, change appointment times, and report information to the load planners.